Some brides like to shop for a bridal gown as soon as they become engaged. Before you begin even glancing at wedding gowns, make sure you have a realistic budget in mind. If you've seen shows on cable TV, you are aware that a bride can spend tens of thousands of dollars on a dress. If you do not have the money to buy, a $20,000 dress, don't even bother looking at the expensive ones. (Check with friends who've recently gotten married. Ask about bridal shops, service, and if there were problems with delivery.)
How much should you spend? Remember that you will wear the dress for one day. Besides the actual price of the gown, you will need to pay for alterations, a veil, shoes, and any other accessories.
* If you can do it, make an appointment to shop for the bridal gown, and avoid Saturdays, if possible.
Who should you bring with you when you shop? Some women like to bring bridesmaids, friends, and mothers. Keep in mind that bridal shops cannot usually accommodate large groups. When my daughters shopped for their individual bridal gowns, only I went along because it made it a lot easier. Although we saw large groups with other brides, it seemed that it made the shopping more difficult because the bride tried to please everyone.
>>>> Can't afford an expensive gown? There still is hope!
- Check for sales.
- Look on Craigslist, websites, etc.
- Does your mother or grandmother have a dress that could be altered for a new bride?
- Check resale/consignment shops.
- Can you rent a wedding gown for a day?
Good luck!
